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In the past few weeks, I’ve posted a Thanksgiving Countdown, Thanksgiving Tablescape Ideas, a variety of suggestions for using up Pumpkin, and Handy Hotlines in case your turkey bursts into flames or some such tragedy (just kidding, people! I’ve been up since 4 a.m. you have to cut me some slack today. Please!).

So today’s post isn’t about being a hostess. Today’s post is for anyone who will be attending Thanksgiving (or any celebration this holiday season) at someone else’s home.

Having been a hostess more times than I can count, I for one am here to tell you anytime someone brings me a hostess gift, it nearly melts me in a puddle. It means so much to know that person appreciated the invitation into our home and wanted to bring a token of that appreciation to share with us.

A lot of people avoid giving hostess gifts because they don’t have any idea what to give. Here are a few “safe” bets that are sure to be welcomed by most any hostess.

Monogrammed Napkins

Most  hostesses would be thrilled to receive monogrammed napkins. Did you know monograms are widely popular right now? I found some really cute napkins at Tuesday Morning a few weeks ago and gave as hostess gifts. The three hostesses all seemed to enjoy them immensely!

Good Chocolate

Make sure the hostess has the opportunity to hide the candy away from the pack of ravenous wolves gathered in her home. You want her to be able to enjoy it all she wants! Really, you do. Trust me on this!

An Apron

A funny one for a host, or a pretty one for a hostess. I  seem to never have enough aprons when we host a big gathering. I found some cute ones at Kmart not too long ago.

Coasters

Who couldn’t use a few extra coasters? If you know something your host is fond of or collects, see if you can find a few coasters that fit that theme. Otherwise, look for something unique and memorable. If you are feeling a bit crafty, you could make your own coasters using tile. You can find small tile squares at home-supply stores like Home Depot. Just add a bit of felt to the bottom to keep the tiles from scratching surfaces (if you have five minutes and a glue gun, you can do this!).

Tea or Dish Towels

What host or hostess wouldn’t appreciate a few new towels for their kitchen. These are some seasonally appropriate ones found at Macy’s.

Hand Soap

A bottle of nice, fragrant hand soap is a great gift. If you don’t know what scents the hostess likes, go for something simple. One of my favorites for gift-giving is Kitchen Spice from Bath and Body Works.

Recipe Journal

If your host or hostess likes to cook, a recipe journal would be a great gift and give them somewhere to tuck all those loose recipes floating around their kitchen. (Not that anyone has that problem.) You can find these at most any kitchen supply store and often at bookstores.

Bottle of Beverage

See, you thought I was going to say wine. If you aren’t sure if your host drinks wine, purchase a higher end bottle of sparkling cider. Believe you me, it tastes a whole lot different than Martinelli’s. If your host is a wine lover, then by all means, pick up a bottle and take.

Bottle Caddy

Go one step better and purchase a fun Wine Bottle Caddy and insert a bottle to give as a gift. These are super handy for carrying all sorts of bottles, but especially if they have wine and will travel.

Perfectly Pleasant Potted Plant

Say that fast five times. Seriously, though, a beautiful potted plant is always a lovely gift. Now would be a great time to gift your hostess with a poinsettia. Not only is it seasonally appropriate, but every time she sees it though the holidays, she’ll be reminded of your thoughtfulness.

These are all easy to find gifts that can fit into most any budget. So when you knock on that door Thanksgiving Day, think about having a little something special to say thank you to your host. You’ll be so glad you did!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Shanna

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My Wednesday Shout-Out this week goes to Todd Smith of Little Things Matter.

I first became acquainted with his work through facebook and then discovered his great website.

If you are looking for a daily dose of wisdom and inspiration, Todd does a fantastic job of providing both.

You can check out his website here.

Enjoy!

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I’m giving you a note of warning: I’m climbing up on my soapbox this morning, so if you don’t want to read my ranting about bad social media manners, please check back tomorrow for a fun and easy recipe!

I have recently been appalled and disgusted by the frequent bad manners used online and in social media outlets.

Whether you are using social media as a tool for a business, as a way to connect with old and new friends or just because everyone else is doing it and you didn’t want to be left out, at the end of the day, it all boils down to one things: relationships. Some relationships are already established, some are being newly formed, some have yet to gain footing. The one thing each and every relationship needs in our online world is respect and civility. Use the good manners you would use in person!

When you fail to respond to messages, pretend you didn’t receive an event invitation or in general ignore someone when they have made a point of contacting you, it is bad manners. You need to respond to the person whether your response is a yes or a no, whether you are interested or not. If the person was standing in front of you asking a question, would you turn around and walk off? Would you suddenly look at them as if they were invisible? Would you pretend they didn’t exist? Of course you wouldn’t! So respond to online questions and invitations with the same courtesy you’d extend in person.

Seriously, how hard is to hit the “yes,” “no,” or “maybe” button? You’ve lost, what, 2 seconds out of your busy day? But at least the person who contacted you knows where you stand. That is all people want – a response. They don’t want your blood, your first born or your undying commitment to something. They just want a response.

The next time you receive a message or an invitation and you aren’t interested, politely say so. Please. Many people will thank you for it.

From Miss Manners Soapbox,

Shanna

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My Wednesday Shout-out this week goes to Dianne Mooney, founder of Southern Living at Home.

She spoke at the Willow House conference a few weeks ago and shared a phrase that has stuck in my head and my heart:

“Live Generously, Love Wastefully”

Isn’t that fabulous?

How many of us truly live generously or love wastefully? I know I’d like to be one who tries.

Think about it… living generously. That would mean to live unselfishly, to live abundantly in the spirit of giving. Wow!

One of Websters definitions for “wastefully” is grossly extravagant. I also think wasteful means having so much of something  that you can afford to use it with abandon. What a thought – to have so much love you could afford to lavish it on others with abandon.

So my hope for you all today is that you will find ways to “live generously, love wastefully” each and every day.

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